How to avoid having frustrating conversations

How to avoid having frustrating conversations

There is nothing more frustrating than having, well, a frustrating conversation.  We’ve all had them, and they are reflective of two key things.  Here they are for you.  Stop having frustrating conversations right now; you have better things to do with your time. 

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These things will limit your ability to communicate

These things will limit your ability to communicate

In this segment, we covered three things that will limit our ability to communicate.  These are simple and basic, yet do not be fooled.  They are foundational to our success, and yet because of their simplicity we tend to overlook them.

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Self-Worth: This is why people treat you the way they do

Self-Worth: This is why people treat you the way they do

In most situations we participate in the treatment we receive from others, a direct reflection of our self-worth. Here are the go to steps that will help you get treated better. 

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Do you do friendship well?

Do you do friendship well?

There’s research that has uncovered some of the underlying behavior of successful friendships. What’s been found is quite different the casual lunches and conversations we often have… 

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Disarm your destructive voices

Disarm your destructive voices

Our Destructive Self has many voices.  The voices speak from fear, insecurity, jealousy, anxiety. Often, our Destructive Self never goes away. The only thing we can do is manage and disarm it.  Here's how. 

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This takes our happiness away

This takes our happiness away

Have you ever had the following experiences? You argue with yourself, stating “I am so mad at myself for doing this”.  Or maybe you behave in a way that disappoints you and looking back, you think “That is not who I really am”.  

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How to open up to someone’s point of view

How to open up to someone’s point of view

Some of the toughest times we can have are when we cannot see things from a different perspective or from someone else’s point of view. We remain at a standstill, stuck and unable to move forward.  The most frustrating and debilitating part is being aware that we are stuck and believing that we cannot and will not be able to move forward.  Well, the good news is that with (1) willingness and (2) committed work, getting unstuck and seeing someone else’s point of view is possible.  Here is how to do it. 

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Start your day better with this

Start your day better with this

Has it ever happened to you that the minute you wake up in the morning, your mind goes off racing with thoughts and worries? Or, maybe immediately after you wake up, you feel stuck, unable to move along with decisions and actions you have to make? If any of this sounds familiar to you, you must incorporate the following tool into your mornings as soon as you can.  It is one of the most powerful tools I have ever used to help me create the life that I want to live.  

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Happiness is easier than you think

Happiness is easier than you think

Did you know that research has found that happiness is: 50% Genetic, set by the genes you have inherited from your family; 10% Extrinsic, impacted by the amount of money, social status, or job we might have; and 40% Intrinsic, created by our internal state of mind driven by the intentional activities we do daily?  Yes, you just read this correctly.  And this is how you can impact 40% of your happiness with the activities you intentionally choose to take daily.  

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